I am in a relationship with a guy. Before we got close, I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he told me yes. I told him that it would not work between us. He told me he was going to call the girl and tell her that it's over between them. But he didn't; he lied to me. He told me after we slept together that he did not break it off with her as he is madly in love with her. What must I do, Pastor?

S.T., St. Ann, Jamaica

Dear S.T.

You are naive. You allowed this man to sleep with you and then inform you that he's still together with his girlfriend. Now that you know that he is still with her, you need to forgive yourself for making yourself vulnerable to his lies. Kick him in his pants and let him go on his way.

Pastor