Dear Pastor,

I am a regular reader of your column. I found myself in a nasty situation where I had to make a drastic decision about a relationship I had with my girlfriend of over four years. I cheated on her with another girl.

She knew about the relationship but never had a problem with it until a few weeks ago when the two of them had a confrontation. I got caught in the middle and was properly cussed off by both.

I ended my old relationship to be with the new girl because she makes me very happy and I foresee a better future with her.

I still love my ex-girlfriend and I know she still loves me. Can you give me some advice about what I should do, and if I made the right choice? Thank you.

D.B., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear D.B.,

You are a low, good-for-nothing fellow. And you have no shame. The woman with whom you had the four-year relationship had done you no wrong, yet you broke up with her because you found this other woman. You say that you still love your ex-girlfriend. I hope that she would never accept you back, because you have nothing to offer her except your material greed.

This new girlfriend, you claim, will offer you a better future. That means you are looking for a free ride. You are not a good man. Some guys refer to women as gold-diggers, but the only difference with you is that you are a man.

I am putting it to you that when this new woman finds out that you have nothing but your 'bruk pocket' to offer her, she will dump you. It's just a matter of time.

Pastor