I am 25 years old and have been struggling with being gay since I started discovering my feelings about eight years ago. I am a Christian.

Some of my family members found out about my preferences and were not happy about it. I know what the Bible says about homosexuality but what do I do with my feelings? I have tried to be straight, believe me, I have. I even tried dating a girl but, in the middle of it all, I still found myself not attracted to her and ended the relationship as I did not want to hurt her.

will I go to hell?

The problem is I find myself always looking at guys and wishing to have sex with them. I have even tried it.I want to know what to do, Pastor. Will I go to hell?

J.R., Trelawny, Jamaica

Dear J.R.,

I was hoping that you would have said that you had sought professional help. But, evidently you have not. I am therefore suggesting that you contact a family counsellor, make an appointment to see him/her and speak the truth about your situation.

Some folks insist that homosexuals can change, while others say they cannot. There are some strong movements in the USA, started by persons who claim they were homosexuals but are now straight.

I believe there is a group in Jamaica also, but I am afraid I do not know where to find it. In fact, if anyone knows how to contact the group, they can get in touch with me and I will publish the contact number.

I believe God is able to deliver anyone. I believe a homosexual can be spiritually transformed. Therefore, I urge you to seek the assistance of a Christian counsellor as soon as possible.

Pastor