Dear Pastor,
I met a girl less than two years ago to.
When I met her, I was ending a relationship with another girl. This other girl had her boyfriend. We were friends a long time. However, her boyfriend came and got her pregnant and left. She was mad that she became pregnant so I told her to have the baby and I would stand by her as a friend until she had the baby, which I did. By the way, the child is not mine.
Found a text
I told my present girlfriend all of this. My girlfriend found a text in my phone from her and we had a fight, but we worked out the problem. Now, my girlfriend is saying she is going to get revenge and she went out and met a man and had sex with him. She went away, told me all of this and then told me that it is over, but she wants us to be friends. I have done so much for this girl. I even got her a job. Does two wrongs make a right? I don't think so.
A.T., St. Andrew, Jamaica
Dear A. T.,
Your girlfriend is not good. She believes in playing with other men. She does not love or respect you. Forget the things you have done for her.
The relationship is over. Don't look back. Don't fret over her either. She is a bad girl.
Pastor