I need your advice because I am in a very sticky situation. The problem is that I'm kind of seeing a guy from Liberia. He claims he loves me but I'm thinking he's only saying that just for us to have sexual intercourse. I actually stopped seeing him for awhile but later went back to him. I don't know how to put a stop to this relationship because I feel that he only wants me for sex and that he's using me.

Please, tell me, pastor, should I totally break it off with him or should I continue this relationship?

D.M., Maryland, USA

Dear D.M.,

What do you want out of this relationship? This Liberian boyfriend is only interested in sex. What plans have you put in place for the future? Are you planning to go back to school, buy a home, raise a family?

If the relationship is purely sexual, when he is tired of you, he will move on to another girl and you will feel used. If you are not sure of this guy, end the relationship now.

Pastor