Dear Pastor,

I want some advice on a problem I've been experiencing for about 13 years. I am 25 years old and my sex life is not good. Each time I try to have sex, I only last for five to nine minutes. When I used to live in St Elizabeth, I used to lift heavy loads. From 2003, until May last year, I was working with a meat company as a truck assistant. I used to load trucks and go on the road.

Pastor, what do you think is causing this problem? Can it stop?

K.R.,

Dear K.R.,

You are experiencing premature ejaculation, a disorder which can be caused by many things. Therefore, I suggest that you see a family counselor, who will explain the type of premature ejaculation control exercises you can learn to do. These exercises must be done with the help of your wife.

So, see a family counselor or, if you prefer, a sex therapist.

Pastor