I have known a guy for almost five years but we have only been in a relationship for two years. Earlier this year, I refused to have sex with him and he told me about three months ago that he had sex with his ex-girlfriend on that same night and that she is now pregnant with his child.

Pastor, I need your advice. I am still with this guy and I really don't know if it's the right thing to do. Should I break it off with him? I really love him and I know he loves me too. He did make a mistake, but I believe that everybody deserves a second chance. Please, give me your honest opinion.

Blinded by love

Dear Blinded by Love,

If you are wise, you would leave this young man. End this relationship now. He will likely repeat what he did again.

Let him stay with this woman, who is now pregnant by him. If you stay, this woman will become a thorn in your life.

Pastor