I am seeing a man but we only speak over the phone. He has never invited me to his house. He is always saying he has to go to work in the morning. I really like him but I don't know why he doesn't want me to visit his house.

Pastor, please pray for me so that I can see the true person that he is.

C.B., London, England

Dear C.B.,

Perhaps this man has something to hide. Do you know his home address? If you do, have a friend check it out for you. If you don't have his address, try and get it. Every girl should know where her boyfriend lives.

If this man means you well and expects to make you his wife, you ought to know where he lives. I am not suggesting that you sleep there but his address shouldn't be a secret.

Pastor