Dear Pastor,

I am a 23-year-old guy who has been having a problem for the last two years. I met a girl in 2004 and for the first seven months everything was okay, until 2006 when everything went in the wrong direction. She started to come home late at nights and also started to sleep out. Each time I tried to talk to her about it, she finds other things to say.

Please, pastor, give me your fatherly advice.

K. B., St. Catherine.

Dear K. B.,

This girl doesn't have any respect for you and both of you should not be living together. Actually she is behaving as if you are a fool.

This relationship will not work. If two young people are living together, they should learn to communicate.

It is likely that this woman has her interest elsewhere. You should end this relationship and move on.

Pastor