Dear Pastor,

I am a 16-year-old female who is seriously in love with a man who is 56 years old. The thing is that he is married and has children. One of them attends my school. I love him and he loves me too. He also gives me money and takes me out. He even tells me he is going to divorce his wife because I am better in bed.

Pastor, what do you think I should do? I really love him.

T. P., Canada

Dear T. P.,

This man is very wicked and he is shameless. He is in a position to help you financially; therefore, he is taking advantage of your present situation.

You are not even an adult and he knows that he has a daughter at your school, yet he is having an affair with you. If his daughter has not yet found out, she will and she will lose respect for her father and curse you.

He is a liar. He is using you. He should be ashamed to tell you, a 16-year-old, that you are better than his wife in bed. No good man will tell a little girl that she is better than his wife in bed. He is saying that to make you feel that you are extra special and that you have what it takes to make a man happy.

Would you like this man's wife to show up at your school or to call your parents and tell them that you are having an affair with her husband? I am sure you wouldn't.

Would you like your teacher to know that this is happening? I am sure the answer is no. Both of you are going out and people will see you and they will talk and the news will go around.

Tell this man that you cannot continue with him. Do so today.

Pastor