Dear Pastor,

I am a 23-year-old Christian nurse with a big problem. I'm trapped between two men. One is my soul mate and lives abroad and the other is my best friend. My soul mate and I have been together for three years. I went to my best friend's house and spent three days there and we ended up having sex. I like my best friend a lot. He's 21 years old. I visited my soul mate overseas, three months ago, and I plan to move overseas. I would like to know which one of these men I should choose.

K. S. Clarendon, Jamaica

Dear K. S.,

Consider your situation carefully and choose the man you love more. You are old enough to decide which one of these men would make you very happy, and would not make you feel embarrassed among your friends. Stop playing around with both. Settle down with one.

Pastor