Dear Pastor,

I hope you are in the best of health. I read your columns all the time and it interests me how you do what you do. Well, I have a problem. I am an 18-year-old girl who is sexually active, and since I have been having sex, I don't know whether or not I have climaxed. Sometimes my boyfriend tells me I have climaxed because he can feel the wetness on his penis. I would like to know what my problem is. My boyfriend and I can go for hours and I still don't know when I have climaxed.

Please, advise me, pastor.

K., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear K.,

Your boyfriend is talking nonsense. If you have had an orgasm, you would know it and you wouldn't be asking me about it.

I can't encourage you to have sex outside of marriage. However, I suggest that you buy magazines and/or books and read about orgasms.

Pastor