Dear Pastor,

I am 20 years old and I am living in the United States. I met a man online a few months ago and, by talking to him every night, we fell in love.

We made plans for me to come to Jamaica. He told me that he would see to it that I would have a good time. But, I found out that he is a married man living with his wife. I am so hurt because of all of his lies. I had so much hope for this man.

Ladies, be very careful of the men online. Run when you meet these men. They are liars and cheats.

Pastor, please, tell me how to cope and also please pray for me.

J.M., New Jersey, USA

Dear J.M.,

I doubt very much that all men are liars and cheaters. I am sorry that one has made a fool of you. That is sad indeed.

I have warned folks not to believe everything that they are told online. Some men lie and lie online. Women do the same. Some people are just wicked.

This man has fooled you. He would have put you in the mad house. God will help you to keep your sanity.

Pastor