Dear Pastor,

I am currently in a relationship with a 24-year-old man who seems to be behaving strangely. He is always away at work and when we are together he starts arguments over minor things. It is like he is forcing me to end the relationship with him.

Honestly, I have tolerated him enough. He has taken advantage of my kindness. He has cheated and he also allows his family members to disrespect me.

The father of my sons wants another chance in my life. He said he will never make the same mistake again. I am absolutely torn. I don't know what direction to take.

K. M., United Kingdom.

Dear K. M.,

Before you make any decision about this man or your children's father, you should go and see a family counsellor. Your present boyfriend and yourself are not getting along well. The question is why? A family counsellor can help you.

Why did your children's father and you end your love life? Why does he want to return to you? A family counsellor should guide you in making decisions. Make an appointment to see one.

Pastor