Dear Pastor,

I am a 91-year-old man. I am in love with a 16-year-old girl. The girl gives me 'bun' constantly. Although she takes good care of me, she comes in very late at nights. When it comes to sex, she only boasts about her young boyfriend. She says he is good in bed and I cannot do a thing.

Pastor, tell me what to do.

A.A., St Ann, Jamaica

Dear A.A.,

Too bad, that at your age, you are living so carelessly that a 16-year-old girl has to be disrespectful to you.

Older women

Sir, do you really have to be intimate with this girl? And, if you really feel for a woman, why a 16-year- old girl? Would you not consider a grown woman, who would respect you and take care of you? What about a 50-year-old woman?

Sir, if you can manage and you need a wife, ask the Lord to provide a grown woman. It is not nice to hear a 91-year-old man say that a 16-year-old girl is giving him 'bun'. She shouldn't be in his life at all.

Pastor