Dear Pastor,

I am in love with a man in Jamaica and he says that he loves me too. He says he wants to marry me, but every time I go there to get married, he changes his mind. I am tired of living a lonely life. I was thinking that he must have another woman, but he said no he doesn't. I even caught an STD from him.

Please, tell me what to do, pastor.

R.H., Toronto, Canada.

Dear R.H.,

End the relationship with this man in Jamaica. He is fooling you. You have proof that he has another woman. Don't play with your life. Drop this joker.

Pastor