Dear Pastor,

I am 18 years old and I have been with a guy for three years. I really don't think he loves me the way he says he does, but I really love him. In our first year of the relationship, I found out that he cheated with another girl attending the same school I attended, but it so happened that we worked things out and got back on track. Then I started to find some really disturbing messages in his phone from girls saying they love having sex with him and all kinds of stuff. Sometimes I just say to myself that maybe it's because he's young, he might want to explore. But then I realise that I'm just making excuses for him. Overall, he makes me feel good and all, but he has a serious woman problem. At times I feel like it's me that something is wrong with.

Please, pastor can you give me some fatherly advice?

L. C., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear L. C.,

this guy is just playing the field. He has many girlfriends and you are one of them. You are not special to him. so don't believe that he will stop playing around because you know what he is doing. It is up to you to go or stay.

Pastor