Dear Pastor,

I'm with a man who is selfish and don't want me to do what I want to. I am in love with him although he is a man and I am a man. He has problems with me having my girlfriend and he doesn't want me to be with anyone except him. I'm confused.

I want to reach out to him, but I am afraid because he is too arrogant and that's the reason why I am afraid to share things with him. He is crazy and I can't do anything about it. Pastor, I am wild and I want to be with him and my girlfriend.

Please, tell me what to do. We have been through a lot, but I think that things can turn around and work for us. Tell me what to do. Pastor, tell me what to do.

P.A., St James, Jamaica

Dear P.A,

The Bible says that a man should not have sexual relations with another man. The Bible condemns that type of lifestyle. If you have never seen that in the Bible, you may read Romans chapter one.

You seem to be proud of having a man as your lover but, I repeat, the Bible teaches that it is wrong. I believe the Bible.

Pastor