Dear Pastor,

I am a 24-year-old female. My man sometimes acts as if he doesn't love me anymore. We have been together for six years, yet he treats me like a complete stranger sometimes. Sometimes for months we don't have sex, no kisses, no hugs, no nothing and that puts a lot of doubt in my mind as to whether he is cheating on me. It is not that I don't trust him, but I am just scared of losing him. When I asked him why he is ignoring me, he says that that's the furthest thing from his mind at the present moment and if I can't wait I should go and get it from someone else. When I asked him if he has someone else, he says no he is just a bit stressed out at the moment.

Please, tell me, pastor do you think he still loves me? Or has he grown out of love with me over the years? Please give me your fatherly advice.

K. S., Manchester, Jamaica

Dear K. S.,

I would suggest that you try to encourage this man to marry you. You shouldn't be worried about whether this man is cheating. Don't accuse him of that. Some men go for months without having sex. Some can't stay away for a month.

Pastor