Dear Pastor,

I congratulate you on the years of service given to this nation. You deserve much credit. May God bless you. I am a middle-aged man with multiple situations. I have been married for just about 31 years and there seems to be a magnetism that pulls women to me. I have a heart to help the weak and vulnerable. Sad, though it may be, sometimes some of them want to go to bed with me. I detest that. Over the years, I have been running scared of women, who want to throw themselves at me. I am a Christian and it is just not easy for me, because although some of the ladies know that I am married, they believe I am available.

Pastor, I am not a womaniser, nor am I an abuser of the fairer sex. Since I have been married, I have gone to bed (protected) with 46 women. I am not proud of my actions but, most of the times, I am pressured into doing this. Sometimes, I may be passing a sister's home and stop to greet them and, before I can look, they are naked and I am asked to come inside. It is very rough on me, especially when I know that it is wrong and should not encourage such actions. A lot of these women are married and have their husbands but are just perfidious. I am running, but I am afraid that one day one of them may hold on to my coat and claim that I coerced her.

Pastor, kindly advise me as to my appropriate behaviour with some of these sex-starved ladies. I know that I am not the gift of God to them and that adultery is a sin. I'd love to be left alone.

D.E., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear D.E.,

How can you write such lies. You make women look cheap. You should stop lying on these women. Man, you just lie.