Dear Pastor,

I was talking to a guy when I was attending school. We broke up because I found out he has a babymother and I hate him now. I met another guy whom I love and I know he loves me too. Now my ex is taking set on me. Everything I do, my ex watches me. I love my man and I would not give him up for the world. I am constantly telling my ex it is over, but it is like he is drawn to me more. He keeps on telling me that his babymother doesn't matter, he still wants to be with me, but I do not want him back. I wish he could leave me alone and stay out of my way and my life.

Please, give me your fatherly advice.

M.J., St Thomas, Jamaica

Dear M.J.,

Let the bird fly over your head, but it can't make a nest on your head. If you are through with your ex-boyfriend, don't take him back. He is not a truthful man. Ignore him.

Pastor