Dear Pastor,

I am 18 years old and I have a situation, I would like you to help me with. My best friend is always going out of her way to steal my boyfriend and it is making me upset. I really love him and don't want to lose him but everytime she keeps on calling him like they are together or something. Well, I have spoken to them about it and when he told her to leave him alone, she began to cry and do everything in her power to get his attention. She is always causing problems in our relationship. My best friend always uses the excuse that they are just best friends nothing else, yet she wants to get with him behind my back. Now one of her other best friend is looking him under the quiet. She is my friend also.

Pastor, I don't know what to do. Please, help me. This guy means the world to me. Should I choose my friends or him?

D.D., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear D.D.,

I believe you are too jealous and insecure. You believe every girl is after your boyfriend. That is nonsense. I think you are being silly.

Pastor