Dear Pastor,

I have a girlfriend who always wants to have sex. She never gives me a break and I think she is cheating on me with another guy. She claims she isn't doing it, but I know she's lying. She leaves work at 4:30 p.m and reaches home some minutes to 12. I want to talk to her about it, but I am afraid.

What should I do, pastor?

T.M., St Thomas, Jamaica

Dear T.M.,

Is this young woman attending classes in the evenings far away from home? Even if she is attending school in the evening, she should be home much earlier than midnight. This sort of behaviour by a woman will cause her boy-friend to suspect that she is having an affaire.

You say she loves to have sex and she will not give you a break. Why are you afraid to tell her how you feel?

Frankly, I suggest you end the relationship with this young woman.

Pastor