Dear Pastor,

I am writing this letter to get your advice on my relationship, which some people are telling me is wrong. I am a woman, who is involved with a married woman, who has another woman. We are having a baby together, which I am carrying because she is the more dominant one. She said that she is not interested in men, but I still have feelings for men. I am having a bit of concern because she is the only woman I have feelings for. I can't say that I look at another woman because I don't feel that way for any other woman.

Pastor, I really do love this woman because she is always there for me. She is very loving, kind, caring and warm hearted. I am a bit confused because I am sure I am not a lesbian, but I am not sure if I am bisexual because she is the only woman I have feelings for.

Pastor, please, tell me your opinion.

M. W., England

Dear M. W.,

You didn't have to write to ask me if what you are doing is wrong. You know it is wrong and your friends have told you so too. You may try to pretty up things as much as you want to by saying it is only this married woman you have feelings for. You are homosexuals - all of you. Whether you wish to call yourselves bisexuals or lesbians.

The married woman has you and another woman as her lovers. Does her husband know what is going on?

You women need spiritual deliverance. May I beg Christians everywhere to pray for you.

Pastor