Anyway the problem is this. I met that son's child and I must tell you he is a wow factor, my age group and all. We hit it off too and started making mad love.

The real problem is they each want me for themselves. The grandfather wants me exclusively, he does not know about his son or his grandson. The father keeps telling me to tell his father or else he will. He does not know about his son. The son does not know about his grandfather or his father and he wants to get engaged.

Pastor why are men so selfish, can't they learn to share and be happy? Well I'm not leaving any so they will have to make their own decisions.

S.T., St Andrew, Jamaica

Dear S.T.,

I would love to know the age of this grandfather and also the age of his grandson. I have observed that you are not seeking to be counselled. You are just proudly declaring that you are having sex with three men from one family, father, son and grandson and that you do not intend to stop.

I have heard of men who have sex with their sons' women. Such men are grossly immoral. You have gone further. You are having sex with the grandson of the old man. You have to be crazy. Yes, you need psychiatric care. I don't care what anyone says, you must be crazy.

Pray to God for deliverance. But also go to see a psychiatrist.