Dear Pastor,

I have been dating a guy for about two years now. He is a chef at a restaurant. He tells me that he loves me, but every time I go there to look for him, there is a girl there who was once my best friend. He tells me that she is just a friend and I take him back every time he tells me that.

One day I went up there and saw both of them kissing and we stopped talking. I took him back after all his apologies. I am now in a relationship with a boy my age (16) and I think I love him and want to spend my life with him, but I don't know how to break it off with the other guy.

Pastor, I need your advice. I am desperate.

L.B., Portland, Jamaica

Dear L. B.,

The man who is working at the restaurant is lying to you. He has another girlfriend, including the girl who used to be your best friend. Don't go back to visit him. He will only use you.

Pastor