Dear Pastor,

I am having a problem. I am currently pregnant for my boyfriend. But to tell you the truth, I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. I know how this sounds, but I cannot help it. I have been with my ex-boyfriend since I was in high school. He took my virginity. Sometimes I have more feelings for him than for my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to hurt him, but recently I found out that he cheated on me and it really got me angry so I went to my ex-boyfriend for comfort. Tell me, pastor, what must I do?

L.M., St Ann, Jamaica

Dear L.M.,

Try to control your feelings. Don't go back to your ex-boyfriend while you are pregnant. One may never know what may happen in the years ahead. Perhaps this man who got you pregnant may not want you in his life and your ex-boyfriend may want you back. Only at that time you should consider returning to him. But right now go easy and give the relationship with this man who got you pregnant time to develop.

Pastor