Dear Pastor,

I have a problem. I have two boys for two of my cousins. My two baby-fathers and I are cousins. They are first cousins.

Do you think my kids will hate me when they grow up and realise what I did? Will it affect my kids in the end? I heard they might get mad later on in life even if it doesn't affect them now.

Please, advise me what to do.

K., New York, USA

Dear K.,

I suggest that you be candid with the boys as soon as you believe it is appropriate to do so. It would be better for you to talk to them about their fathers before they question you. Tell them the truth.

And pray that they will understand. You have my prayers in this matter. Don't worry about the children's health.

Pastor