Dear Pastor,

I'm a 23-year-old woman living in Canada. I lost my boyfriend four months ago in a car accident. Now I'm in the process of accepting it. I miss him dearly, but he's not coming back so I have to move on with my life.

I was a little bored one day so I was on THE STAR's website and there was a link for a dating site. I went to it and signed up and a few days later I met a guy in Jamaica. He's 21 years old and he's a mighty fine young man. We talk everyday for hours and we also webcam. Now after a month of talking, we're both in love with each other. I'm so excited. I'm going to see him for the first time in person.

Pastor, what do you think about all of this?

D.S., Toronto, Canada

Dear D.S.,

I can only wish you well and I hope that his young man will not fool you. I must ask you to be very careful because many times people do not speak the truth on the net. I am not saying that this man is not speaking the truth. I am just giving you a word of caution.

Pastor