MANNISH WATA
Dear Pastor, I have been married for 20 years and we're in our 40s. We have three children. My problem is this; my wife is very bossy in the home and in the bedroom. As soon as she walks in the door, she complains non-stop.

Grab-bag baby
Dear Pastor, I'm having a big problem. I have a little boy who is nine months old and who has two dads, but one of them doesn't know the child isn't his. I know who the dad is. It's the one who the baby has his last name.

'Sorrowgate'
Dear Pastor, I am a 40-year-old woman married for four years to a 30-year-old man. Age is not an issue. My dilemma is that my husband does not have any children and is ready to start a family and I would love to have other children.