Dear Pastor,

I live in America and I am dating a man who is Jamaican but resides here. I believe that he is unfaithful to me. He tells me that his children and friends come first. I am in a very bad situation. I recently had surgery and I am unable to work, therefore, I depend on him totally. We live together in the same house. I know he is unhappy and so am I. I am an educated woman, who is just unable to work. I am so frustrated. I don't know what to do. We have no children together and I don't have any children either.

Pastor, please give me your fatherly advice.

PD, Philadelphia, USA

Dear PD,

You are living with a beast in human form. I want you to know that he has brought shame on every good Jamaican man. He does not love you. Neither does he care how you feel and what is happening to you. He knows you are ill and need his help, yet he insults you and behaves like a beast.

I hope you will get well and leave this man. A good man would have taken care of his woman. I hope you will be strong enough to work soon. Leave this man as soon as you are able. He is cruel and very wicked. Call on your friends and relatives to help you, especially on weekends.

Pastor