The Jamaica Star :: Health :: Proper condom wear

Dear Counsellor:

After my best friend died of AIDS I decided to use a condom every time I have sex. I have always thought that condom takes away the pleasure of sex but it really does not, after all I feel more comfortable knowing that I'm safe from HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. I like using condoms. The only problem I have is that the condom does not fit all the way up to the base of the penis. Does the condom need to fit all the way up to the base of the penis?

Concerned lover

Dear Concerned lover:

For ease of movement during intercourse, it would be ideal for the condom to fit all the way up to the base of the penis. But for protection, it is not necessary. The two major barriers of protection a condom provides are to trap semen at ejaculation and to prevent skin-to-skin (that is, mucous membrane-to-mucous membrane) contact during oral, vaginal and anal sex. The shaft of the penis is covered with normal skin. It is the canal of the penis that is mucous membrane and is in need of a barrier for protection for both partners against sexually transmitted infections including HIV the virus that causes AIDS.

Genital warts

Dear Counsellor:

My boyfriend saw warts on his penis. He went to the doctor and the doctor told him he has a sexually transmitted infection (STI) called genital warts and that my boyfriend should take me in for examination. Tell me what exactly are genital warts?

Marie

Dear Marie:

Genital warts are caused by a virus. Symptoms include small bumpy warts on the sex organ and anus, itching or burning around the sex organs. You get them from sexual contact with someone who has them, and it takes from one to six months for them to show up after the infection, however some people show no symptoms. Genital warts can be treated and cured with a variety of techniques by a doctor.

I must encourage you to see a doctor as soon as possible even if you have no visible symptoms. Remember; use a condom every time you have sex to prevent sexually transmitted infections.

For more information on condom use, HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections call the AIDS/STI Helpline at, 967-3830, 967-3764 or toll free at 1888991-4444 or write to AIDS Affair, c/o the Star, 7 North Street, Kingston.