Dear Pastor,

I've been having some problems with my boyfriend. We've been together for nine months now and to be honest, I love this man. I'm true to him, but he cheated on me with another girl and when I found out, he didn't want to admit it. There was proof as I ended up finding pictures of the girl in the apartment in which we live together. It hurt me deeply because I trusted this man. I'm true to him and now I don't know what to do. I can't talk to him about anything that is bothering me because he ends up getting upset and makes me feel as if I'm wrong.

Pastor, please, tell me what to do. My feet are already out the door and I don't want to leave and have regrets.

K.P., USA

Dear K.P.,

Evidently this fellow has not come clean. He should admit that he had this girl before he met you. He should tell you that he is sorry for causing you distress, but he would like both of you to try to live in harmony. He seems to be "wrong and strong" and that is not the way he should behave. If you believe that this man does not care and he is not making an effort to make you feel wanted, you should walk out on him.

Pastor