Dear Pastor,

I'm 24 years old and I attend a very highly respected university. I have a problem. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of six months. I miss him a lot. Now I'm in a relationship with another guy whom I never thought would satisfy me the way he does. In this relationship though, I'm the other woman. He pays me more attention and tries to make sure that I'm all right. There are times when I ask him how he finds the time for both of us when he's mostly around me.

Recently I realised that I'm in love with him and I worry that if I lose him, my heart will be crushed. He is an amazing guy and I honestly think that I want everything with this guy. Sometimes I just wished he would just leave his girlfriend and be with me fully, but that's not me. He cares for me a lot and I try my best to do the same, but sometimes I wonder.

Pastor, what must I do in a situation like this?

S. B., St. Andrew, Jamaica

Dear S. B.,

What you don't want for yourself you must not do to others. You wouldn't want another woman to try to steal your man away. But you are doing your very best to take this man away from his girlfriend because he is good in bed. I am not on your side at all. You are going to get a big drop. You know that this man will not leave his girlfriend and come to you totally. So it is up to you if you want to continue to behave like a fool or end the relationship.

Pastor