Dear Pastor,

I have been with a guy for four years and we got married four months ago. During the four years we have been together, I always had women problem with him. At one point we separated because he told me that he impregnated a girl. After a couple of months, he came back and told me to give him another chance and that the girl was telling a lie. Now that I gave him a chance and we are married, the girl problem has started again. He has a girl calling him every day and he is calling her too. If she doesn't call one day, he calls her. He tells me that it is a lie, but I know it is true, because, every evening when he comes home, I search his phone.

Pastor, I am tired and fed up of this. I don't know what to do.

SC, Grand Cayman

Dear SC,

Nothing new here. You knew that the man is a womaniser and you agreed to marry him. He hasn't changed. I don't know if he told you that he would, but if he did, he lied. The only thing I can suggest is that you ask others, including the minister who officiated your wedding to meet with both of you. Tell the minister your husband has let you down and is fooling around with women.

Pastor