Dear Pastor,

I am a 22-year-old female with a big problem. Recently, I had sex with my boyfriend and now it seems as though I am addicted to it. I constantly think about it and can never get it off my mind because I am always in the mood, even though I tell my boyfriend that I am not whenever he asks. I am also a Christian and will be getting married soon. I know it's not right to be having sex before marriage, but it just happened and I am afraid to tell him that I want to stop because I love and enjoy it a lot. If we don't have sex, I often masturbate. He is always ejaculating inside of me and yet I am not pregnant. I want to have a baby for him really badly. I know we are not yet married, but we still consider ourselves as a married couple.

Pastor, please help me and not judge me.

M.S., St Andrew, Jamaica

Dear M.S.,

I will not judge nor condemn you. You are telling me what you like and why you like it. Hurry up and get married. Because you like sex so much and you may not be able to afford a big wedding, have a very simple wedding. And after your husband and yourself are able, you can throw a big party and invite all your friends. Remember, the Bible says that it is wrong to fornicate.

Pastor