Dear Pastor,

I am a 27-year-old woman living in Jamaica. My life is in shambles. I'm in love with a single father of three. He says he cares about me a lot, but he only sees me once in a while and says it's because he is very busy. He rarely calls. I do most of the calling.

Pastor, do you think he is really busy with his three boys, or is he just playing?

T., Clarendon, Jamaica

Dear T.,

This man is not serious about the relationship. You should be very careful, if not, you may become another one of his babymothers. No man can be too busy to see his girlfriend. This man is probably very busy because he has other interests (women). Why do you have to be spending all your money to call him? Move on, my dear, move on. This is man is not serious about you.

Pastor