Dear Pastor,

I must first congratulate you on the marvellous advice and support that you give to your readers. May God continue to increase your wisdom and knowledge in helping others. I'm a Christian in my mid 20's and a prominent minister from my church who is over 40 years older than me is really in love with me. He doesn't look his age though. I love him too, but I'm also talking to a younger brother from my previous church in Jamaica. This minister has been counselling me concerning other matters. We became friends and then we started to develop feelings for each other.

Pastor, what must I do?

T.C., London, England

Dear T.C.,

Tell the minister from your church that a younger brother and yourself have been dating. Therefore, you would like it to remain like that. You may also remind him that it is unethical for a counsellor to become emotionally involved with his counselee.

Pastor