He ended up in jail and was wanted by immigration. He called the house for his kids. One day he called with a young lady on the phone trying to disrespect me.

He was going to get out of jail, but I called immigration and let them know he was in custody and they deported him. I say to all Jamaican men do not forget where you come from, and never feel that you have to ever disrespect any woman, worst your mother, wife or kids mother because woman in the USA will always be here and when you don't have money for your kids, their mother has to have. This man doesn't know that I was the one who called Immigration.

E, USA

Dear E.,

You reported this man to Immigration as a way of getting back at him and you succeeded because he was deported. Well, it may always remain on your conscience. Couldn't you have found another way to deal with your problem? I am not defending what the man did and I hope that he would do his best to support his children even while he is in Jamaica. Pastor

Would you tell the children that you were the one who reported him to the authorities? What will they think of you when they grow up?