Dear Pastor,
My daughter needs counselling, but at present I cannot afford it. Sixteen years ago a lady in our area went out and came back with a young baby claiming she found her. Everyone scorned the baby. I was shocked at the response so I took her home and placed an announcement on a local radio programme. No one came forward so I took her to Children Services, then I adopted her. She has been doing well in school and sports and is to represent Jamaica in the near future.
Now the lady along with her daughter saw my child on the news and invited her to their home. They told her that whatever I told her is a lie and they are her mother and grandmother. They also told her that when she gets to age 18 I am going to throw her out. I never had that intention.
She is supposed to be sitting 10 CXC subjects next year and already has two college offers from abroad and they are playing with my child's head. They have not spoken to me since they confessed to my baby. Had I known the child was their flesh and blood, I would not have touched her. I would have looked on her like everyone else and done nothing. But if I left the baby that night, I couldn't have lived with myself. I believe in my heart I did the right thing.
I love my baby and have no regrets about what I did, but they are making me look and feel like a fool as I am now the joke in everyone's eyes. As long as someone is listening to them they will tell them that she's their daughter and granddaughter. My daughter claims she does not know who to believe and is confused. I cannot afford a counsellor for her. Please can you help us for free and pray for us.
God has forsaken me
I believe God has forsaken me for something like this to happen. The announcement was made on the radio in the week of August 12, 1991. It said where the child was located and asked the mother to leave the birth certificate if she was unable to take care of the child. My child now wants me to get a copy of this announcement so she can read or listen for herself. I have no idea how to go about getting this information. Can you help me achieve this goal?
M.M., St. Catherine, Jamaica
Dear M.M.,
I am glad that you accepted the child and adopted her. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You are a good Jamaican woman and God is going to bless you. And those who are now claiming that they are related to her need to understand that if indeed they are related, they are shameless and they are not good people.
Your daughter should give God praise for putting it into your heart to adopt her and taking care of her throughout these years.
Madam, I will be quite willing to meet with your daughter and yourself and I will not charge for seeing both of you. So, call my office and make an appointment. And I will also like to suggest to you that you should discuss this matter with an attorney-at-law. These people who are claiming to be her biological mother and grandmother should hear from an attorney. If the child was legally adopted the Adoption Board will have the records to prove to your daughter that what you are telling her is true.
God is not dead. He is very much alive. Have confidence in Him.
Pastor