Dear Pastor,

I have a problem that I wish you would help me with. I am a professional and I have a problem. I just can't seem to talk to one girl. I have a girlfriend whom I live with, but I have a lot more girls on the side, like 10 or so. I have been told that I am good looking by many. Sometimes girls even approach me; I don't have to approach them. The next thing is that God has blessed me in my pants and, for this, any girl that gets a piece of me wants it all.

Pastor, what can I do to curb my problem and try and stick with the girl I truly love and want to spend the rest of my life with? I have children and God forbid if any of my sins shall turn around on them. It's so hard for me to tell a girl that it's over. In recent times I have tried and so far I was able to tell one and it's now over.

Please, help me pastor, I really need your help.

K. T., St. Andrew, Jamaica

Dear K. T.,

Any man who is determined to behave himself, can behave. You really don't want to stop running around. I know you don't because you think that you are a hot rod and you have the biggest penis in St Andrew and that every girl wants you. You are kidding yourself. Self-control must be practised at all times by everybody, male and female. If you believe that you are a sex addict, then you need to seek the help of a psychologist. Call him/her and go for counselling.

Pastor