Dear Pastor,

I am a 19-year-old male. I have a woman who is 29 years old and she wants to marry me. I love her, but not so much. She has given me what every man wants, but I don't know.

Should I marry her?

J.W., St. Andrew, Jamaica

Dear J. W.,

You are not ready for marriage. And if you were, you are questioning whether you should marry a 29-year-old woman. She excites you in bed and is probably giving you some money, but whatever she is doing with you will not last. So keep yourself quiet and try to get a skill.

Pastor