Dear Pastor,

I am a young woman in my early 20s who is married to a young man in his early 30s. We have been married for three years now and he has been cheating on me since. I am living abroad trying to make it easier for us to have things to our comfort, but two months into our marriage, he decided to tell me that he had a woman five months pregnant. I stayed, pastor, because I love him. I came back to Jamaica to visit and another woman is saying that she is pregnant also.

Pastor, I don't want to stay in this marriage. I want a divorce. Am I doing the right thing by making this choice and not being a fool for this man? Thanks for your help. Please pray for me while I pray for myself.

L. T., Florida, USA

Dear L. T.,

I suppose you are thinking that you should get out of this relationship before your husband impregnates more women. Nobody should be against you if you decide to divorce this irresponsible young man. He is making his bed very hard to sleep on. Do what you believe you must to keep your sanity.

Pastor