Dear Pastor,

I am a 22-year-old man living with one of the most wonderful women in Jamaica, but there is a slight problem that I'm having. Lately we find ourselves fighting over simple things that we can talk about. I love her so much and she loves me too. We are planning on getting married.

Sometimes she just complains and I can't take it anymore. There are times when everything seems so well that I have to make use of it, but when it goes bad, I feel like running away.

Pastor, can you please help me to get through this phase of our life together?

J.R., St Thomas, Jamaica

Dear J.R.,

Both of you should go and see a family counsellor. You have not explained what these problems are. I know for sure that when couples have physical fights, their relationship isn't going well and they lose respect for each other. So, both of you should go and see a family counsellor.

Pastor