Dear Pastor,
I have four kids. Their father got another woman pregnant. The other woman and I had baby one week apart. I don't know what to do. He is living two different lives with me and the other woman. I feel so confused and I don't how to deal with the situation. He says he loves me and I must give him time to sort out his life.
What do you think, Pastor?
K.W., London, England
Dear K.W.,
Your children's father is careless and irresponsible. But there is very little you can do. The woman's child is already here and that child has to be supported by the father, who is your man. He is going to have to carry a heavy burden. He has to support the four he has with you and the child with the other woman. His pocket will have to be very long, and by that I mean he will have to be earning a lot of money to be able to support these children adequately and to support you.
He wants time to sort out himself, so give him time. If he continues to have an intimate relationship with the other woman and you are not getting enough money from him for the children, you should see a lawyer.
Pastor
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