Dear Pastor,
I am a 27-year-old Christian married woman who has just found out that my husband was unfaithful to me. He said it was only via phone, but I can't believe him. I saw some of the text messages and that's how I found out. We have been married for six years with two kids. I just can't seem to believe anything he says.
How do I deal with this? Please, help me.
A., St Mary, Jamaica
Dear A.,
What you are trying to say is that you do not trust your husband anymore. After six years of marriage, your husband and you should be closer and should be able to communicate very well. I suggest that both of you go to see a family counsellor.
Sometimes, men don't tell women the full truth and wise women don't insist that they tell them everything. Some things are better not said or known. Nevertheless, I hope that with professional help, you will regain confidence in your husband.
Pastor
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