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Dear Pastor,

I would like to congratulate you on the good work you have been doing over the past years.

The problem that I am having is that when a guy touches, kisses or cuddles me and is ready to fondle me, I'm always wet. Sometimes when I have sex and I'm done cleaning myself and lying done with my guy, I'm wet as ever.

Whenever I have sexual intercourse I don't know when I cum.

S.W., Ontario, Canada

Dear S.W.,

Nothing you say here is abnormal, so don't worry.

I hope your boyfriend will marry you.

I do not believe that you have really experienced orgasm. Such experience is so exciting that you would know.

However, many women do enjoy sexual intercourse without experiencing orgasm (or as you put it "cum").

Pastor