Dear Pastor,

I have a boyfriend who I really love and I don't want to cheat on him. He is involved with another girl and it kills me because I know about her. He is very jealous of me. He doesn't want any male to talk to me or call my phone. That makes him get mad at me. Whenever he comes to my house and the girl calls his phone, he talks to her and doesn't want me to say anything.

What should I do?

K., St Catherine, Jamaica

Dear K.,

Your boyfriend is a typical man. Some men love to have as many women as possible, but their girlfriends are not even to look at other men. You know he has this other girl and you are tolerating him. So, he is taking you for granted. He is behaving as if you can't do without him. Whenever he is at your home, he talks to her freely on his phone. He doesn't have much respect for you and if you can't see that, then you are blind.

Pastor