Dear Pastor,

I am a 19-year-old girl who is confused. I am engaged to my boyfriend of two years, but I have been having sexual affairs with many different men over the two-month period we have been engaged.

'Co-working'

I just can't stop. I always have this strong sexual feeling for guys. I work in a well known firm in Kingston and I have slept with the manager and two other co-workers. I don't know what to do because my fiancé thinks I am an angel and I don't want to hurt him.

I need help, please.

Promiscuous Girl

St. Andrew

Jamaica

Dear Promiscuous,

Are you saying that you are a nymphomaniac? If you are always having strong sexual feelings for men and you are never satisfied sex-ually and you feel helpless and must have sex, you need professional help.

Abnormal behaviour

I would urge you seek the help of a sex therapist. You should not consider getting married at all until you are able to overcome this ab-normal behaviour. You men-tioned the number of men with whom you have had sex, which I have deleted. But I beg you not to do anything to embarrass your fiancé. You really have to stop doing what you are doing. But I need you to know that I understand that you feel powerless.

So please, call a psy-chologist and make an appointment today. And remember, if you feel you must have sex, make sure you protect yourself, not just from pregnancy but also from HIV/AIDS and other venereal diseases.

Pastor