Dear Pastor,

I am a Christian man who was in a relationship with a young lady.

I am 26 years old and she is 23. The relationship we had lasted for about 2 months. Up until then, everything was going OK until one day I saw a picture in an envelope on the bed written with love verses at the back. The back of it also said that he was the love of her life. I was so frightened because I trusted her, so I started to cry.

Arms of another man

When she came home from work I asked her about the picture. She told me that she met the guy at work and he liked her. The next day when my mother was leaving work, my mother saw her in the arms of another man. I am a one burner person. I was searching for a wife but it did not work out.

Please tell me what to do.

R.F., Westmoreland, Jamaica

Dear R.F.,

Dry your tears. Don't cry young man. Thank the Good Lord for saving you from the pain and the distress that this woman would have caused you if you had married her. You have lost nothing.

Pastor

Move on young man, move on. Don't look back. This young lady doesn't love you. You will get another young lady and you will learn to trust again. There are good women around Ask God to lead you to one.

Pastor